I'm Dr. Reed. And I have something for you too. Some men thrown him out – he may not necessarily confess to this right away. Oh my god. And more than anything as women we have to stop letting men have their cake and eat it too and hurting other women by breaking up households by being with their husbands. I am single a mom, Christian, and believe in making lemons into lemonade. And why would you ever want a man that is willing to leave his wife and kids for you? you are living in his property and he avoids the constant paper trail of hotel He said the following over the course of several appointments: I’m so proud of you quite the same thing as a straightforward relationship between two people which Is it be too much to consider an unhappy marriage kept together for what could be 1000 different reasons. As well as to introduce her to his family and to her put her his life insurance and health insurance. God will not reward ppl in situations like that. I’m not married but I know someone who claims he’s in love with his mistress. So he told me that what he wants to do is set a life for her and the baby so at the end when he leaves she will at least have a home and not struggle but he wants to refrain from having her know that is what he is doing to spare her even more pain in the process and wants me to take his word that he is leaving but he needs to make things right since she never asked for this and so that he can leave with so what of a clear mind and for him to be okay with at some point another man will be raising his child since he wants to be with me. His personality he is not good at standing his ground and communicating but better if he were to type of txt it out and Ive confirmed that even with his family and wife. Because as soon as you are not giving him what he wants as a mistress then his love is gone. I tried to move on. I think it is possible to love more than one person at the same time. He said that him and his wife have been married at the time less then 1 yr and that majority of the marriage she was living in Maryland due to she did not want to move to AZ. So, you When It Comes To Love And Marriage, Especially One That's Going Through An Affair, The Mistress May Know More About A Husband Than A Wife Does. Even though all those years he was never 100% with my aunt. I hope that will give you insight on what you should do. And only in love with me. Unconditional love, however, is a whole different ballgame. Tips On How To Celebrate Your Day, To listen to the blog post: Social Media And Depression The Truth & How To Deal over reading it just click the play button below. If he truly loves his wife he wouldn’t have a love affair in the first place. It’s you. And that fit with another amazing statistic: 88 per cent of the men said the mistress was no better-looking or was not in better shape than their own wives. While right and wrong is black and white I don’t like to generalize in situations like this cause from the outside looking in you may not know the exact specifics behind the marriage or the affair… what if they stayed together for kids or because of illness…etc. there is certainly some common ground it's fair to say. Some men never loved their wives. For me it meant giving up control and putting my (mostly destructive) male EGO aside. You cant make this mess up! start with something as straightforward as a holiday but it could involve a more Spending more time than usual with a woman from work, chatting to her online or arranging work trips in which she is always a part, is a red flag. Check out my video below on how to stop doing that and don’t forget to subscribe to my channel by clicking here. Because it is statistically proven that most of these relationships do not last. They are not in it for love. Running down his marriage is one way to explain his actions and hopefully gain your respect. Everyone has the freedom to do what they want. So forget Him. Well, I guess that is an opinion personally I hope that all women should not want to share their man, or possibly break up a marriage. I am sorry that happened to you. It sucks from both sides.. I’m married 25 years my boss 20 years ..I never cheated on my husband, my boss never cheated on his wife. I hope your friend wasn’t expecting a positive answer because she is in love with a married man! Hes GOOD!…though they eventually found out after he dropped each of them like a hot potato after their unsolicited phone calls to me. I salute you for kicking your married ex out. Read a psychology post about it some time. I got married at the age of 24 to a very beautiful girl selected by my parents. But being with a married person is wrong and just like the Bible says one of the fruits of the spirit is self-control. Sounds a The first thing I like to say is that God can never make you be attracted to anyone. Some people are more compatible that’s all. I call them victims because they are. You will never feel the same love for a spouse that you would a mistress. I just know that is not the kind of love I feel I deserve. It’s not fair if he gets away with all this, then suddenly kicks you to the curb. In this aspect he must not love the wife or the mistress. He’s such a beautiful man(soul). We know what we want, and we know how to get it. Within a few moments of receiving this tool’s results, you’ll have a clearer idea where you stand with your married man. A man who respects you won’t embarrass you. Well he is married and a baby on the way….! I was getting ready to say that a mistress is absolutely delusional. When a married man says i love you, is one of the signs a man is in love with his mistress. He told me that he wants me to wait for him and to stay his girlfriend at the same time. But you do not need to be the witness or the cause of the breakup. I joke that I married her so that my children would have her eyes, and that is one part of her physical appearance that has not changed. in touch on occasions when you know he is off-limits – family events, special Usually, mistresses offer men a break away As some women but I’m sticking to the topic. ), How to Spy On Your Husband's Cell Phone (Without Touching It), Being Sneaky In A Relationship (13 Ways To Handle A Sneaky Partner). BUT I think you are wrong on so many levels. Playing tug of war over a man. He couldn’t stand to be w/o her nor to let another man get her. Some people believe this is simply not possible; he still loves his wife and you are just a dalliance to satisfy lust and boredom. By the 6th year we already bought a home together and he left his wife. What if you have children together and have been common law for 16+ boring-ass years together? Does he have intentions? which means he seriously values what you think about him. They often shower these women with gifts to keep her happy and give her more attention than he does his wife. How do you know he never loved her? It doesn’t matter if you are prettier than her, Skinner than her give him more sex than her etc…it doesn’t matter. I know you do not know the wife, but I really feel bad for her. A good relationship does not start off like what he is giving you. We did fun things of course however, we also repairs the house, cars, shopped, cooked, cleaned, went to children’s events. No one is passing judgment and no one said anyone was going to hell. Nobody wins in a affair. Let’s be real. That is why people share, to get the prize sort of speak. I took him back but finally just got tired of it. I enjoy your company The concept of love is complicated as there are a different types of love: you love your partner, your parents, kids and certain food etc. I would NOT under any circumstances sleep with him. But thanks for your comment. So when a man meets the woman he has been looking for all his life, the woman that would be all the things I described in the beginning of this, he would struggle to not want to start a life with her. Lack of communication expectations, childhood influences etc…. If you’ve cheated on your spouse, you need to accept that the damage you’ve done may be more than he or she is willing to accept. His wife is. He might be I am in an affair with a married man and I DO NOT WANT HIM TO LEAVE HIS WIFE OR FAMILY. I get what I want from him, I give him what he wants and cannot get at home. I was the better catch – I am employed, have my own business, a couple of cars and property and she had nothing. To me, that is what real men and adults do. He wrecked our home by his choices. Also, I do have a blog that cites statistics in a separate blog you can read it here. As I am the owner of this, I pay for the upkeep of this blog, and I am a Christian, that is my right to write from my viewpoint. Low self esteem maybe? Bc obviously there’s a problem within himself or in our marriage if you can’t leave another woman alone. If he said move in together or get married I am dumping him. Enter your email to subscribe to this blog, receive newsletters, and to receive new posts by email. It is not a selfish kind of love. And I do believe everyone reaps what they sow so if you choose to do wrong (in any situation) then you are just inviting the same wrong on you. doubt. He was married for 6. A mistress is being faithful to a man that cannot be faithful to her because he has a wife. I feel so sorry for your wife and your lover who have your babies and whose life you've messed with so much. I agree 100%. 10 Signs A Married Man Is In Love With His Mistress, A hopeless romantic that struggled for many years to find her Mr "Right" and made all the mistakes you could think of while dating. In both cases, the man is getting what he wants and both the women are getting the short end of the stick while he getting to play house and have sex with both. The punishment was “death” in some cases of adultery. You keep him for those things. Than last year he tells me his coworker or two coworkers messaged his wife claiming harmless flirting that happened before he and I got together. I love you so much, this much that more than a hundred times in a single moment. But it probably won’t happen unless you take the initiative. I feel under pressure to end my marriage because I fear losing my girlfriend who incidentally is more receptive to love making than my wife. He doesn’t want to appear the scoundrel in this situation as he really wants you to think well of him and approve. Like he has told her plenty of time he loves her and his baby but he no longer in love with her and has been that way before I got in the picture. Unfortunately with this attribute, men can utilize this side to a woman’s determent. doesn’t find out” or, “I love you but its not the right time to leave Great example is Charles and Camilla. We don’t speak. Seriously didn’t know how to respond to this. The messaging never stopped. If it all blows up and he gets found out then Blessed, Intelligent, Beautiful, Limitless, & Educated. Yes everyone is human BUT we also can resist temptation. The married man refuses to get a divorce even when the mistress insists him to divorce his wife (going on 2 years). He knowingly and intentionally tricked these women into thinking he was madly in love with them and was going to divorce me and have a “Happily Ever After” with them. Are You Ready? And people’s feelings change over time. We have been off/ on for a year. We’re what advice do you have for the wife who’s husband has a mistress???? I do not want the responsibility of a wife. Click here to buy it. A bit long read. Also, how does he know he made the right choice? But I PROMISE you I have been in same situation as you. We are pursued. You are strong yourself up for failure and you are ruining a lot of lives, especially if there are kids involved. Husbands will continue to cheat and do this because you LET HIM do it! I know a lot of men who left for their mistress and are quite happy. Or co inhabit as couples and all sleep together. I have known a man who was prodded with a fork. It could just be that absence makes the heart And if you are happy then your own standards is the only thing you have to judge yourself by. It can be tempting to think you are more “special” than his wife; more … There is no emotion on earth more powerful than falling deeply in love after waiting your whole life for "the one," your perfect match. it starts with self. 6. She is playing the at home whore? I think that over all this is about works of the flesh in this case lust and the lack of self control which is what God tells us to have. Having a loving, trusting relationship. In conclusion, we all deserve to find the soul that intertwines and blossoms into pure magic. He is untrustworthy and inconsistent. template of ‘loves me loves me not’ to every extra marital affair will not He has no good reason or right to cheat, but he did. But every person has a choice, if you are happy with what you do and the decisions you make in your life, then that is your truth that you have to live by. If you’re tired of the drama, pain and frustration, get help right now with one of my top-selling online programs, such as Overcoming Infidelity // For Betrayed Spouses. So I fell in love with him. I just want to see him smile. She may say because I love him and he loves me. Please font judge me, I’m only human! and only the very skilled will get away with a plausible excuse. They’ve not been married however they have not been separated aince they met. Oh, adults are so complicated. Contracts are broken all the time for various reasons including that most people who get married are forced to participate in the marriage contract established by our current society. really loves you, he will want to protect you and moving out of the marital Im upset he refuses to leave in peace. I think we women compete with each other far too much. During the phone CONFRONTATIONS, they were, shockingly enough for me, extremely hostile and volatile towards me as he had convinced them that HE- NOT I- was a battered spouse. Does your man keep telling you that he’s planning to end his marriage, but fail to follow through? Buying His outlook seems to have changed. I’d say the man doesn’t love his wife and he doesn’t love his mistress either. I don’t have to hear his complaints, wash his clothes, cook for him, run his errands, watch the budget, etc. and texts when you know he is caught up in his other life, is a pretty potent I personally do not think that a married man can love his mistress based on ALL the above things I just mentioned but let’s just say that he did. (Yes I’m aware you don’t care). Says who. God hates pride and haughtiness… pride masks sin to the point that we are proud… comfortable with, sleeping with, and/or, ultimately “taking” someone else’s husband. But you have to let go of what he does not want for you first. He is just in a relationship with her on HIS terms, not an actual real relationship. Their feelings don't come about because of their partner, and this is something partners need to note. care about you and not want to share? Like I am his plaything, he is mine and I plan to enjoy every minute.. That does not mean that he will cheat on you, but it also may mean that he will. Not all women involved with a married man are a ‘homewrecker’— maybe a few have set the intention to wreck a mans home but why would anyone do that?? as you won’t ask me to leave my wife”, or, “I love you as long as my wife Ladies listen to this author ..you will never win him over. I would visit him at work. Just because you have feelings for a married person does not mean you have to act on them and understand that if you do then you are choosing to enter an affair. Sophie, you are belittling the mistress. No no no. Dear Thelma, I got married in 2010 after my first child was born. Women are good at bringing each other down and never hold men responsible whether at work and in this kind of situations. This is a sure I want him to stay married. Arnold’s true love was probably his mistress; this is true for many men who are in love-less relationships. I was the one “using him for his money and hurting a GOOD MAN”. Married men lie about their wives. Being the mistresses isn’t always fun and games. So me falling in love with him i told him yes due to the baby not her…. But there are people who practice open marriage. I never did the damage is the thing and me and her came to agree with that. That’s life. It is just about the sex, the lust and the fun. If he is your close friend as you say and he likes you. Wow! Yes I missed him It was hard to ignore him. I hope everything is okay with your friend. He also told me that he got married more due to everyone asking him when he was going to purpose since there is now a baby coming into this world, he said then he felt obligated to proceed in the marriage instead of standing up for him self. I don’t think I can ever understand the unfaithful thing. I had a friend that had an on going affair for 13 years. Divorce is an outcome of a something. & They all interchange partners. There is no I am happy just seeing him when I can. Hahaha! This is an intriguing topic and you have many great points not to mention an outstanding writer. from all the daily chores of life that they share with their wives. Why are you evaluating yourself in terms of comparison? We all have these archetypes within us. But that is just my opinion. People come in your life for a reason. Stop telling women what not do do with your grown-ass husband and start taking responsibility for your own actions in your failing marriage. When she does not want to share but de idea to stay bc of the money, house and cars? works of the flesh (see my blog here to understand why that is). nonetheless very revealing about his mental state and is a bit of a hallmark of An affair is a lot of sneaking around, the other woman being jealous of the wife, the wife being suspicious about what is going on, and the husband going back and forth between them. If we all loved ourselves a bit more, this would reflect positively in our marriage and our man would be happy and satisfied with no reason to step out of the marriage. on a par with those he would give his wife – hopefully, even better? to one of his children – birthday, graduation, wedding – then you really are He cheats because hes abusive. So in my eyes God will not give me someone else’s man. important that you are able to accurately gauge professions of love within the context I think what you are saying here is just cruel and I am pretty sure you´ll come back in some time (might be a month, might be 10 years, but it will happen) with your own story of “wife who was never loved, not the best catch, left because etc…” What is argued here is not that people are more compatible with other people, which can happen any time. If he Wake up wives- not every mistress wants your husband to leave you!! How many times have we heard […], Hearing the words “I don’t want to get married it is not normally something that you will hear coming out of a woman’s mouth. The wife made an unexpected flight down from MD to AZ about 3 months in and found the txt messages of him having an affair at the end of all the fighting he sent her and the new born baby back to maryland due to the pain that was caused and had me come move in with him I stayed with him for about 3 month till then the wife said she was struggling and wanted to come back. Said we were done. You deserve better. And a woman came in and told you the same exact explanation that you told me? i just don’t get it …i think yes it’s possible to love two people at the same time .. but you are going to love one more than the other .. Sure I tried to leave him numerous times. Would God give him to someone else even if I approve? So I ended up getting into a relationship and fell in love… So he said he fell in love with me too and from that point thought it would be good to finally tell me the truth….. Come to find out he was hiding a life from me…. Marple is a sure sign that he has serious designs on you. But we can not close our minds to the fact that some women’s intentions are to find her life partner any way she can. And more than anything, please do not get into a situation where you are competing with another woman over a man or in this case her husband. Some aren’t. What does the other woman get? This is the second mistake after starting an affair. I wish all the best and hang on, light is coming your way, I am sure! A man who just got out of a marriage is typically not going to want to jump into a new serious relationship or marriage. I love you as long as you be what I want you to be and do what I want and I get to go back home with my wife in the end. He won’t leave unless the wife files for divorce. Some of the readers are telling their story and trying to explain or exonerate their actions as permissible under the circumstances where there is somehow a logical reason on why men have an affair. title deeds? They can and do 100% fall in love with someone else. He is not a man of good character.Remember dear, you reap what you sow. need to assess this latest development in the round. Mistresses are women in the lives of married men, and they're women these men are physically and sexually attracted to. though this might be, if you have any say in the matter, perhaps best to Repent and find y’all own man ladies or remain single. We travel, have fun, enjoy life with him or without him. Fact, ssometimes the wife isn’t enough and the mistress is. But that is not love, those are just things. I was told by one the lady refused to be a mistress & just maintained friendship. Though just saying i love you does not guarantee he will leave his wife for you , at least its a sign the from many married men tend to say to mistresses. A man who ACTUALLY loves you won’t stray. And why possibly hurt another family or another woman by sleeping with her husband. I’ve never been married, but I have been cheated on & it’s not a good feeling. And the wife sometimes has to begrudgingly admit that she can’t help but notice a change in her husband. It If you have not read my single mother story on this blog I found out my child’s father was still married when my son was one year old. People have found a good business partner and both husband and wife are open to being in other relationships and they do. It is not like the man is going to be there for her through thick and thin, she cannot go home and meet his family, spend the holidays with him, call him after work when she is having a bad day (because his wife is home), or just pop up to his house when she wants to. However, I want to point out that adultery is 100% wrong regardless. At the end of the day, if he knows that he is not going to have sex with you (because you told him that) and he still wants a real relationship with you; you can date but only after the divorce is finalized. A wife at home and a mistress tucked away But it isn’t their intention to ruin what he has at home. Steve Harvey will tell you that in his book Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man. He did it on his own free will even if he did feel pressured. Boyfriend Accuses Me Of Cheating And Lying: What Should I Do? He says he hasn’t felt this good or this young in years. the contrary. you. I am sure that there are people out there leaving their relationships for other people (I know some myself, been one ) and that is a good idea in the end. Because Mistresses give them the ego stroking their wives have forgotten how to do. of a gift is always an indicator of desire. If you want to talk about contracts, loyalty, promises, and so on, then I think that’s valid, but professional relationship counselors should not bring god into the equation unless they are ecclesiastical leaders. I just want him to accept my decision to move on. It's back and forth between wants, wishes, dreams, and present moment and reality.At times it's just us and our time together, but more often it's about fitting in somewhere in between. You are making an assumption that a marriage contract is written in the stones of heaven. slam dunk of his finer feelings for you, however. In 13 years 1 text. Then again, if he truly loved his wife would he even have a mistress?? And HE is the one cheating. It is selfish. I don’t believe ALL marriages are ordained by God. That he wants to be able to help set them up with a home of her own and coordinate with their daughter but no longer wants to be in her life. recently ,he told me he filed for divorce as he cheated on his wife ,she found out and did the same (she gave him a test of his own medicine and he was upset ,and decided to let her go) which i find unfair to the woman. Hell, there are many gay and lesbians who were committed for years before they could legally be married. In front of a judge, a minister, a court of law, and both of their families and they have a legal binding document otherwise known as a marriage certificate. When your wife stops doing her part and tries to take advantage of you, it’s clear she doesn’t love you anymore. married men fall out of love with their wives but would never rock the boat seriously important event indicates a real loosening of the ties that bind the and heartache. So, be careful what you wish for. From my current vantage point that I can see the beauty in my former employer’s remark. If a married man is interested or attracted to you, he makes you a priority in his life. And in that span of time, she received one text calling her a whore. Feelings are inevitable but keeping things real and honest is the way to be true to both of you. And this man never loved his wife. The last time I went he was cold and distant. I like attention and affection, gifts and money, BUT, I like a loyal husband and friend better. She was a hooker. Thats his hobby. I’m not excusing the mans behavior but we cannot be an accomplice to the crime of adultery ladies. significant. Confronted him. If a man truly loved his woman he couldn’t fall for another. Click here or the picture below. Everyone has the right to do with their own life with what they want and live in their own truth. If he really loves you, would Being his wife, having kids are not my goal with him. This I love you as long as you have sex with me. He swore he was moving out. now public knowledge, then you may encounter visits from his wife and also his She is now “officially’ my Wife-Mistress and I am her obedient Husband-Housewife. I’ve seen this before, mistresses at some point will become more obsessed with the wife then the man. No matter if she knows about you or not. I would like a word of advise dearly. Religion clouds and pollutes everything and is beside the point. Not a man that goes home to his wife after we have spent time together. I finally got tired of the games and deleted my email yesterday. It is easy to splash the cash on expensive We traveled together. I think there are so many different kinds of love or like and I think that the love we feel for every individual person is different. I think you gave a great analysis of the situation. And he said he respected me for being a woman with morals (everyone thinks i am stupid for saying no to this dentist). I don’t. I’m always happy to see you I think that she should think that she is worth more than being with a man that is already taken. substantive suggestion that perhaps revolves around a shared interest or blackmail, it is love on his terms, a sure case of enjoying the best of both Not to keep her tucked away in his back pocket pulling her out and putting her back in whenever he feels like it. I feel when you truly love someone, then it is really one of those most unselfish things you can do. How do you know he made the right choice? 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